Embrace your reality

It's a profound experience to feel deeply connected to certain people in our lives. This connection makes us to prioritize them, making them important persons of our story. But making them important or prioritizing them is the choice we make, we can't imply the same on other it is not a reciprocal process. Just because we have high regards for the person doesn't mean they also have the same intensity of emotions for us. Everyone has their own emotional space which they have created from their experiences and only few are able to enter it.

Expecting the reciprocal of the emotions from others lead us to disappointment and frustration. It's a common misconception to assume that our feelings should be reciprocated simply because they are true and genuine. In reality, a relationship, a friendship or any bond can only be stable and nurtured when both people respects the emotional space of other and gives them freedom. We cannot impose our thoughts, feelings, or expectations onto them.

Our major fault is to expect things from others. Because when we try to find our happiness or value from the response of other person, it is then where we loose our emotions. It's important to find our worth within ourselves instead finding it out externally. We must value the bonds we share with people but with mutual respect and no expectations.

We must understand that as time flies away people changes they grow they prioritize differently they evolve, their feelings change and we must respect that. Then only, we will be able to cherish the present moments with them, by avoiding them or by running away from them doesn't make any sense instead we must accept the thing that different individual have different thinking and we can't impose anything on them.

Cherishing and enjoying the present moment can give us a lot more happiness than expecting things from others. It allow us to be happy without depending on others for the sake of our happiness. Expecting things means depending on others which cause disappointment and make us feel frustrated. 

So to cherish our life, we must accept the fact that every individual person has his own emotional space which must be respected. We should not impose our emotions onto them and must value the bond without expecting anything. This will make life much more easier and happier. We can nurture our bond with trust and belief. So always try to avoid expectations and value your bond. Embrace your reality instead of your expectations. Align only to those expectations which can be completed in reality....

Signing off

-- vava